Meet Desi
Want to get to know more about me, huh?
Read on to dive deeper into the story behind who I am and how my story is unfolding today

15 Fun Facts About Me:
✨Detroit, MI born and raised #DetroitVsEverybody
✨MSU Spartan Alumnus #GoGreen
✨I’m not a coach but I can teach you things
✨Sophisticated enough for classy events, but I curse a lot
🦸🏾♀️Superpower: Knowing all the best digital tools
🤔Unexpected Factoid: I get my best ideas at the weirdest times…in the shower, while driving, at 3:00 a.m., in random conversations, you name it! My creative brain is on 24/7.
✨Astrology: ☀️ Capricorn / 🌕 Libra / ⬆️ Sagittarius
✨MBTI: ENFJ-T / Turbulent Protagonist / Diplomat
✨StrengthsFinder Top 5: Activator / Communication / Woo / Significance / Futuristic
✨Learning Style: Visual 35% / Auditory 35% / Tactile 30%
✨DISC: 48% Dominance / 26% Influence / 13% Steadiness / 13% Compliance
✨Enneagram: 1 (Performer) / 2 (Helper) / 3 (Achiever)
✨Life Archetype: Sage
✨Temperament: 59% Melancholic / 41% Phlegmatic
✨Human Design: Projector
Millennial. Foodie. Techie. Creator. Dog mom.
Hey there — I’m Desi M. Slaughter (but just Desi works too)!
I’m a multi-passionate creative professional, digital creator, public figure, certified techie, and lifestyle storyteller, sharing the real journey behind building a personal brand — and a life — rooted in authenticity, creativity, and freedom.
Born and raised in Detroit, now living and creating in Lansing with my dog Bandit by my side, I’ve always been a little nerdy, a lot creative, and endlessly curious. Growing up, you could usually find me with my nose in a book, daydreaming about new ideas, cooking up something in the kitchen, or diving deep into whatever I was passionate about that week.
Today, not much has changed—except now, I share that journey out loud.
I’m passionate about helping people see that showing up as your whole, real self is not just enough — it’s powerful. It’s the foundation for building a life and digital presence that actually feels good.
Through my blog, newsletter, businesses, social channels, and presence, I empower creatives, students, entrepreneurs, and fellow nerds to show up as their whole selves, build authentic brands, and monetize their uniqueness.
Every day, I wake up fueled by a simple mission:
Learn more. Create more. Grow more. Inspire more.
I believe there’s real power in telling your story, building influence with intention—not perfection—and creating a brand (and life) that feels good, not just looks good.
My life motto? Eat. Nerd. Create. Grow.
Because life’s better when you follow your curiosity, share your gifts, and keep evolving on purpose.
What you'll find here:
This blog is where I pull back the curtain and invite you into my world — where I talk about creativity, branding, personal growth, digital tools, mindset shifts, nerdy tech finds, the behind-the-scenes of life as a multi-passionate creator — and lots of "you're not alone" moments for fellow dreamers and doers.
Because here’s the truth:
- You don’t have to be an influencer to have influence.
- You don’t have to be perfect to be powerful.
- You can build a brand and a life that feels like you.
This space is my real-time diary of my journey:
- The wins worth celebrating (because we celebrate even the small stuff)
- The pivots that teach resilience (because growth gets messy)
- The lessons that fuel growth (because your story will evolve—and that’s the point)
Because I’m building a personal brand in real-time, and I believe the journey deserves to be shared — not just the polished highlights.
If you’re into creativity, growth, tech nerd-outs, personal branding with heart, and real conversations about chasing dreams, you're in the right place.
Final Thoughts
Now that you know a bit about me...
- stay up to date on what's happening in my world and current events on my Facebook Page
- see the world through my eyes on Instagram with vlogs and photos
- follow my daily thoughts and commentary on Threads
- and get inspired by my pins on Pinterest.
With my obsession to dominate the Internet market for my name, you can pretty much find me on any site as @desimslaughter.
Come say hi, share your story, or just vibe with the content. I’m so excited to connect with you!
Want to know more about me?
Check out some of the posts below!

From the 313 to the 517: Why Lansing Stole My Heart

Let’s Get Social

How I Became A Pescatarian
